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If we’re serious about queer freedom—about safety, dignity, mental health, and joy—we must be just as serious about dismantling anti-Blackness in our communities, our movements, and ourselves.

Today, I want to get into the difference between emotional expression and emotional attack — and why learning the difference is the key to actually getting more of what you want out of your relationship (instead of slowly poisoning it because your sadness is wearing a bulletproof vest and your anger is wielding a knife).

You’ve identified that your parents aren’t sensitive to your needs, blame others rather than take accountability for their actions, are self-absorbed/have narcissistic tendencies, or are emotionally unpredictable in a way that leaves you with whiplash and feeling frazzled. Now what?

So what does it mean to be emotionally immature? And how do you know if you had emotionally immature parents? Here are some key signs.

Healing happens in the presence of emotionally responsive and caring relationships. Reclaim your time, your energy, and your sense of self.

Your existence is a truth that does not rely on recognition, permission, or societal approval.

Choosing yourself in the face of dysfunction isn’t just self-preservation; it’s an act of quiet rebellion against a system that demanded you

Invisible queerness is an experience that many LGBTQ+ individuals face, where their identity is not immediately apparent to others.

Exploring your gender identity means reflecting on who you are at your core and discovering what feels most authentic to you.

Anne Hodder-Shipp, a queer sex educator, brings a fresh and inclusive perspective in their book Speaking from the Heart.

Finding a therapist who affirms and understands your LGBTQ+ identity is an important step toward better mental health.

"while sexual identity may be fluid for some people, bisexuality is a valid, independent orientation in its own right."

Recognizing and validating the diverse expressions of invisible queerness is crucial for fostering a more inclusive community.

Celebrating National Coming Out Day: Honor LGBTQ+ identities, support community resources, and show solidarity for those on their journey.

Polyamory and ethical non-monogamy challenge traditional ideas of love, offering a fluid, consensual, and expansive way to connect.

Do you tend to go to great lengths to make others happy? You might be engaging in people-pleasing behaviors.

As we shift away from Brat Summer and into Demure Fall, the transition back to school can bring a mix of excitement and stress for...

Addressing Domestic Violence in LGBTQ+ Relationships

Whether for mindfulness meditation, a place to journal, or ADHD-friendly time management, there are so many mental health apps.

Beyond Focus: Unpacking The Lesser-Known ADHD Experiences